Rip dad 30/12/09

[Dragon_05]

I lost my dad yesterday to cancer he fought well and we went through alot these last few months almost lost him in November while he was in RPH then he was allowed home 2 weeks ago.
We were told he's have months left but in the end the cancer spread too fast too soon it was skin cancer that had spread to his neck and glands and into his bones and 2 tumors in his brain.

He was a specail guy to me coz not only was he my dad but he was my grand dad both he and my nan raised me as their own from a baby and now he is gone its going to be hard for me for awhile I know and I been trying to contact the only person I ever really felt comfortable with and trusted only to have them ignore me, and I needed so much for them to talk to me it would of been big help to me.

It wasnt nice losing him at this time of the yr he took a turn for the worst on xmas day so none of us really had a xmas this yr and nor are we going to have a NY to much to do too soon.

My heart goes out to all those who ever lost someone they love coz it hurts very much, and coz the person is gone and so has their pain your pain doesnt.

[Stoneville]

Deepest sympathy to you I hope the memory of good times is enough to ease the pain

I have yet to experience the loss of someone close, something I try not to think about (yes I have lost members of my family, but oh so long ago when I was young)

[Murley]

Sorry to hear, Dragon_05, I'm glad you were able to spend time with him during the past few months, I hope you made the most of it! It's fucking devastating and yes, it was a shit time to happen but these things are never convenient unfortunately

Please accept my condolences and best wishes for you and your family.

[hammerhead]

never a good thing to hear mate thoughts go out to you and your family

RIP

[CBRsairz]

Sincerest apologies to hear about your loss. Hopefully you can always remember the best times you shared with your Dad, and he will forever live on in your memories.

[Bealz]

Sorry for your loss Dragon, I too lost my dad a few years back to a sudden heart attack very near christmas, so I feel your pain, condolences to you and your family.

[heri3110]

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
i know the feeling. its hard but we have to carry on and remember the good times we had with them.
i lost both my parents to cancer.
take care.

[QuietLil]

My deepest sympathy to you & your Mum. May his memory live forever in your heart.

[Dragon_05]

we are trying to cope as best we can its very hard on my mum though as she has dementia so we need to handle the situation in a way that helps her understand too, she and he were together for many years they just celebrated their 52nd wedding anniversary on 21st December and now we are doing all the funeral arrangements so in between crying we are also talking about all the things he did that made us laugh and all the stories he told us of the old days and all the things he loved doing i think that is what is keeping us going right now.

[Ozboy]

My condolences to you and your family Dragon, it seems there are quite a few people on PSB in mourning at the moment.

Remember the good times with your Dad mate and use that to stay strong.

RIP Dragon Snr

[Butters B)]

Much sympathy to you and the rest of your family. I know how you may be feeling at the moment as I lost someone last year over Christmas. Hope you pull through okay.

[Misadventure]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. No time is a good time to lose someone, but especially now when we all like to be with our loved ones. RIP

[Dazza996]

sorry to hear of your loss

condolences and deepest sympathy to you and your family

[karen]

Condolences to you and your family.

[BikingChick]

Sorry to hear of your loss Dragon, I know how you feel, I lost my Dad 3yrs years ago, not a day goes by I miss his funny witt and his smile. Cherish the great memories you have with him, it does help you to get through this hard time.

[Stephan]

My sympathy and condolences to you in this tough time...

[Batten]

Sorry to hear Mate

[Dinga]

Sincere condolances Dragon. It's never good good to loose people close at any time least of all this time of year, trust me, I know.

Just remeber, stay strong, focus on the good memories and in time that pain you feel will slowly ease.

Stick with it Dragon and good luck.

[Stressfest]

Condolences my friend. It's never easy, but the pain lessens with time.

[Becsta999]

Sorry to hear Dragon - my condolences to you and your family. Hope your friend realises how much you need them and contacts you. Take care.