ever cheated?

[xanthian]

^^ So if she's honest about it... ??

[Maxo]

^^ So if she's honest about it... ??

And tells you beforehand that shes going to go and bone some other guy?
That depends if you're okay with it or not, and what kind of relationship you have.

After the fact is a bit like stealing something, but then calling the person to tell them you've taken it. Honest and morally correct, but stupid.

[Emily]

Does it matter if your partner has a 'meaningless, one off' fuck with someone he/she neither knows nor cares about?
I guess cheating should be treated as a case-by-case thing...

[Sweetcheeks]

i think cheating is cheating.....i wouldnt put up with someone doing it to me again.....nor would i ever again be 'the other woman'.

i guess though 'open relationships' seem to be quite common these days.

[Revelations]

Does it matter if your partner has a 'meaningless, one off' fuck with someone he/she neither knows nor cares about?
I guess cheating should be treated as a case-by-case thing...

a meaningless one off shag usually means a lot to the one who has been cheated on

[Cam]

a meaningless one off shag usually means a lot to the one who has been cheated on

Yeah, it means they weren't invited.

[wendylee]

Frankly, I could actually see circumstances where there might be some positives for the cheater as much as the 'cheatee'.

For the guys who don't know where the hell I'm coming from, I have another completely random question to ask; 'is it cheating if she's with another woman?'

Ever heard of open relationship?

Some couples are great in some areas of their relationship but not in other areas

Some couples are so secure in their relationship that having an open one is ideal, and to me its not cheating if its F/F mind you if the husband/Bf knows about the FWB then it shouldnt cause any problems.

[Cam]

Different strokes, different folks, but the core thing is that if you're doing something you wouldn't be comfortable doing in front of your partner, it's probably not okay. Whether you're in a more open relationship or an exclusive one, there's always a line somewhere in the proverbial sand.

[thro]

Its not cheating of both partners know about it and consent to the third party being involved.

[Sweetcheeks]

Its not cheating of both partners know about it and consent to the third party being involved.

that be called an 'open relationship'

[Cam]

that be called an 'open relationship'

Not really.

Bob and Jane might both be in agreement to fuck the brains out of Jill.

That doesn't necessarily mean Jane can go fuck Jenny without passing it by Bob first.

It's all just a bunch of labels either way.

[Maxo]

that be called an 'open relationship'

or a 'threesome.'

[Sweetcheeks]

yes but open relationships are open to different degrees. And how does Jack feel about Jill getting around ?
think threesomes are too common these days to even need to be discussed arent they ?

[Maxo]

yes but open relationships are open to different degrees.

Then it isn't an 'open relationship' if both partners know about it and consent to the third party being involved.

It is an agreement.

Open relationships are different.

[Sweetcheeks]

see this is where people think differently. To me, an open relationship is where there is a mutual agreement that it is okay to sleep with others..... cheating is doing it behind their back......

What do you class as open relationship maxo ? (i am genuinely curious)

[Tic]

Id like to see a poll of if your single and slept with someone who was in a relationship. And if so did you know beforehand and if you feel guilty after finding out or not.

[Sweetcheeks]

Tic, i have slept with someone in a relationship.....i did not know he had gone back to his ex.....and only found out when he let it slip by accident, however i did make the choice to go back once more after i found out.....

did i feel like crap when i found out he was back with his missus, effectively making me 'the other woman'? YES !
do i feel like crap about indulging once more after i found out? YES !

anyone with a conscience would feel bad over it.